Are you being given the best advice by your psychic reader?
When I am giving a reading, I often feel as though I am channeling someone else in the guidance I give. This is especially true when talking about very serious subjects, such as in one example the perceived sexual orientation of a young child.
A while back, I had a client who was really struggling with the fact her six-year-old grandson wanted to carry a purse. He also was drawn to flashy and colorful jewelry and a few other “girly” objects which greatly concerned my client.
Even though my own teen granddaughter had recently come out as being gay, I had never dealt with this kind of situation in my business. But somehow, the exact words my client needed to hear simply flowed from my mouth. After our lengthy conversation, I sat holding my phone wondering where all of that wisdom had originated. I looked back on my own words and was amazed at how easy they had flowed forth and at how much it all made sense.
Since that time, I often reflect on certain readings and wonder where all the right words had come from.
While I do not go into a trance or lose consciousness in any way, I often feel as though my mouth has been taken over by a higher power. For years after I first started reading professionally, I would say a little prayer before each and every reading asking, “God, please speak through me.”
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Apparently, he heard my prayers and did just that. This is in no way to toot my own horn, but I am often amazed at how much wisdom I am able to conjure up. People have thanked me for working miracles in their lives and they say talking with me is cheaper than therapy and so much more effective.
I am not a licensed therapist or counselor, but like many Readers, I am often called upon to serve in a similar capacity. There is a popular meme showing what different people think Readers do with, “What I actually do,” being a graphic from the wonderful Peanuts comic strip with Lucy at the psychiatric booth.
That really is true. Readers so often find themselves in the position of confidante or counselor. Without crossing any boundaries, a good Reader will give solid advice that is not based in his or her own opinion.
Quite a few of us have become ordained ministers and are able to counsel others in a pastoral capacity. We participate in courses and workshops to educate ourselves and to be able to better assist our clients. However, I am very careful to not cross any boundaries with respect to licensed counselors and therapists.
A good reading should give you so much more than a prediction of things to come. A good reading should provide guidance and advice on how to proceed for the best possible outcome. It should also be completely unbiased.
As one who screens potential new readers, I was once had a test reading with an applicant in which she literally told me that what I felt about my own relationship status is wrong. I was floored. She went on to say that I did not fully understand what I felt and that I really did desire to have a life-long partner despite the fact I have chosen to remain single for many, many years.
If you ever come across a Reader so opinionated, run. Hang up. Seek guidance from a true professional and one who has no personal stake in you or your situation. Choose a Reader who wants only what is best for you, even if it contradicts their own beliefs.
Having attained Master Level at Mediumship, Tarot, Energy Work and general Psychic Readings, Tamara (Tami) has a great many years’ experience as a Spiritual Counselor, Psychic, Tarot Reader and Medium also. She is highly skilled at Numerology, Auras, Past Lives and Chakras and can help you determine your own psychic abilities; she is remarkably adept at simple questions as well as those most in-depth. As an award-winning writer with more than 45 years’ experience, Tamara (Tami) has provided original works to 7thsense on various subjects and writes the Daily Tarot Draw.