How To Make The Most Of A Phone Reading

How To Make The Most Of A Phone Reading

It is natural to feel a little nervous or anxious before calling a psychic or a reader. Believe it or not, the stage fright sometimes goes both ways! When you think about it, on the one end, you’re opening up to a stranger about your deepest feelings and concerns, and it is normal to feel insecure about it. On the other end, someone else’s job is to bring you clarity and hold space for you. Each reader and each seeker is unique, and regardless of the experience, clicking with each other is an art! Let’s see what you can do to make the most of a phone reading so once you’re done you feel exactly how you should feel: Clear, empowered and optimistic about the future.

1. Get organized before the phone reading

It is normal to want answers here and now, but it is good to be as calm as possible before having a reading. When you seek a reading in a state of anxiety, you are less likely to benefit from it as much as you could otherwise. Extreme moods can impact the reading negatively. When you feel extremely happy or sad or anxious you may not be in the right place to listen to the messages. It is advisable to dedicate some time before the phone reading to get into a state of calm and focus, to be open to the messages and to perhaps make a list of the issues that you would like to go through. Also, it is very recommendable to keep a notebook and a pen close by so you can take notes.

2. The introduction

When you call your reader, take some time to introduce yourself and your situation. It is natural that you may want them to pick up on a thing or two, especially when you are a little skeptical, but once you feel comfortable enough, you may want to give some background to your reader: This will be in your benefit, for the reader will spend less time digging into the past and deciphering the situation and more time speaking about the options at the present and the future outcomes.

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3. During the phone reading

Make it a conversation! We love to assist our seekers in the best way possible and your reading is, or at least should be, a safe space for you to share whatever you like. Something is ringing a bell but you’re not quite sure how it relates to your life? Say it, after all, the purpose of a phone reading is to offer you a different perspective. Also, stay open to the messages that may come. This can be difficult when you are in a complicated situation or hoping for a particular outcome. Take notes even of the things that may not make sense at first sight, for they most often than note, come in handy later on.

4. Ask about the “Hows”

Do not focus on just “if” or “when”! If you ask “When will I get my dream job?” you may be disappointed with the answer, but when you ask “How can I get my dream job?” or “How can I speed up the process?” you’re putting the power back on you as well as getting clear directions to get where you want to be.

5. After the phone reading

Revisit your notes in the next days or weeks and see how things are happening in your own life. You may find out that things that didn’t seem to fit with you at the time of the reading are now making sense or relate to new possibilities that have opened for you.

Mia Alviz

Psychic Sibyl is a Tarot and Lenormand reader and mentor with vast experience in the Occult. Her calling is to guide others through the most turbulent times in life as well as provide answers and most importantly, raise questions. For a psychic reading from Sibyl visit her profile page.