Searching For Your Family Soul Tribe
I can’t even begin to count how many readings I have given where family issues were being looked into that a comment like “I think the stork dropped me into the wrong family” was made.
My answer is always, “no he didn’t, you are the perfect gift for them to grow and learn about unconditional love.”
It is sometimes hard to see why you seem to surrounded by family, friends or co-workers that just don’t get you and you always seem to be the odd duck in the group.
Perfectly scripted by you for your life experience. I also get a lot of flak from new clients when I introduce the concept that we choose our parents and upbringing for that sole purpose but we did.
Once you accept that concept, you can then start being accountable for making changes to it.
The search for individual identity
We all desire to find our soul tribe, a community of those that we feel comfortable with and nurture our journey.
Part of being human is the search for an individual identity but also bound to this strong need is an equally intense desire for acceptance and the need to belong.
It is when we find our matched soul tribes that both are satisfied. Our soul tribe members are those people who accept us as we are without reservation and gladly accompany us on our journeys of evolution.
Among them, we feel free to be our imperfect selves, to engage in the activities we enjoy, and to express our vulnerabilities by relying on our soul tribe for support.
We feel comfortable investing our time and energy in the members of our soul tribe and are equally comfortable allowing them to invest their time, caring and nurturing in our development.
Close bonded friendships
These individuals who eventually become members of your unique soul tribe may not be your blood family at all but come in the form of close bonded friendships, like and kind spiritual belief group members or a partner, commonly misconstrued as a twin flame.
You are destined to find them, one by one, as you move through life.
Sometimes your own efforts will put you in contact with your future soul tribe members. At other times, circumstances beyond your control will play a role in helping you connect.
If you look about you and discover that you are already allied with a wonderful and supportive soul tribe, it is more than likely they are members of your soul tribe family that have done many reincarnations with you. If you feel you are still living outside of your soul tribe, broadening your horizons and interests can help.
When your soul tribe comes together in your developing life, you can be assured that its members will stand at your side. On the surface, they may seem to be nothing more than a loose-knit group of friends and acquaintances to whom you ally yourself.
Yet when you look deeper, you will discover that your soul tribe grounds you and provides you with a sense of community that ultimately fulfills many of your most basic human needs. Sometimes we get lucky enough to have that soul tribe our own blood family we are born into.
Susan Z’s Verdict
After having said all the supportive reasons why we seek out our soul tribe, don’t misinterpret that just because you have found them, they won’t also be part of your spiritual growth by causing friction, aggravating the hell out of you and just plain being a pain in the butt. That is your soul tribe family too. Coming all to eagerly to help you learn patience, tolerance, self-love and unconditional acceptance. All good lessons to help teach you to grow and experience, which is exactly what a soul tribe is for too. Find your personal life path and soul tribe family. Here is a quote from one of my favorite motivational speakers who passed away in 2015, which pretty much sums it up.
“If you follow the herd, you’ll end up stepping in shit.” ― Wayne W. Dyer, I Can See Clearly Now
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Susan Z Rich is an emotional addiction counselor, spiritual intuitive and holistic therapist. She counsels others to see life in a more positive way and teaches personal accountability for life choices. She is also the author of several children’s books and Soul Windows…Secrets From The Divine.