When You Feel Emotionally Bullied In A Relationship The biggest hurdle with being in a relationship where you are being emotionally bullied in a relationship is being able to recognize it. This comes from exposure to a demeaning definition of…
Happily Ever After With Not-Your-Soulmate? There are many currents, thoughts and books about Soulmates, Soulmate connections, Twin-Flames and the like. While there is a general idea that seems to be sort of universal, there’s no consensus about the part that…
You Don’t Have To Be Perfect To Deserve Love Any reader advisor inevitably gets asked the question, why did he leave me for her? Insinuating that there is something more the other woman has that she does not. We get…
Dropping Your Defense Mechanisms In Relationships We all have history, a story and baggage we sometimes carry from making foolish or misinterpreted choices in relationships. Throughout all those moments, we learn a sophisticated system of defense mechanisms that began as…
The “Not Enough” Relationship There’s a special kind of relationship that drives people particularly crazy. Probably the sort of relationship that is the most draining and often, even destructive. This is what I call the “not enough”. This is how…
Signs Of A “Man-Child” Potential Partner We have all heard the phrase, “man-child” and any woman that has been involved with, dated or married to one is very clear what that definition comes with. You are dealing with a man…
Is it Really Possible to Remain Friends with Your Ex? The age old question: Can you really maintain a successful, strictly platonic friendship with your ex? How does that friendship affect your current relationship and significant other? For a few…
Your Star Sign Best Relationship Traits When we are thinking of getting involved in a new relationship, it can be tempting to use our potential partner’s star sign for an understanding of their emotional makeup, behavior or personality. Setting aside…
Letting Go Of Relationship Abandonment Fears Abandonment issues in a relationship or life in general can affect how you deal with everything. It is rooted in the lack of emotional and physical support when we are children and creates a…