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A mantra I live by and very frequently counsel others on is to “always know your worth.” I have written about this very thing several times in these 7th Sense articles over the years and preach it almost daily. Today is no exception as I talk with Karyna who has been feeling quite down recently, Charmaine is being expected to carry the full burden and responsibility for the demise of her romantic relationship and Jonathan is not being respected by his girl.

“I read your replies to people every week. i love your empathy towards people..You so professional..
I am feeling really down lately. i was wondering could you pick card and see will things change..
thank you” – karyna

Karyna, I tremendously appreciate you taking time to read this article each week and I even more so appreciate your kind words.

The cards shuffled quite easily as I focused on you and your situation and the card that came up was the Ace of Pentacles, reversed. Through this card, I am seeing that you may have suffered either a loss or simply missed out on what may have ended up being a pretty good opportunity for someone else about six to nine months ago. With a full reading, I could tell you more about this but on the surface, I am seeing that this negative situation most likely did not pertain to a personal relationship, but may have been more professional in nature or something related to you as an individual that made you just feel rather badly about yourself.

You will most definitely overcome this and sooner rather than later now that you will be able to step back and be more objective. Also, moving past it will not require quite as much effort as you may be dreading. It is basically reworking your thought process on the whole situation and giving yourself permission to just move forward from here.

I’m feeling that you probably do not even realize that you are still carrying some negativity due to how this situation/loss transpired and you hold yourself more accountable than need be. Know that whatever happened is in the past and you simply cannot go back and change it. What’s done is done and now is the time to just move forward.

Try to take this down time during the pandemic to do some spiritual, emotional but more importantly mental cleansing. Work to be more focused on the positive at all times. I strongly suggest you try some guided meditations on YouTube to help you focus. Some of those work miracles for people who have trouble calming their minds and retraining their thought process on their own. My favorite are the binaural beats.

Through even just a little focused effort, I feel you will find yourself back on track by the early part of July and beginning to enjoy some new and positive things in your life.

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“Hi Tami
My question
My partner of 5 years walked out of our relationship!
Are there any chances of him reconsidering, he sends me a message that he loves me but I must change!
Thanking you
Love and light to you
Be safe” – Charmaine

In looking at your long-time partner, Charmaine, I drew the Page of Cups, reversed, which tells me he is acting quite immature and refusing to accept any responsibility for his own actions that ultimately led to him leaving.

He did not leave because he feels you need to change. He left in part because he had grown away from you and your shared connection and I am getting that he had become distracted either by a new situation that he desires to pursue on his own or another person. Things did not work out and now his pride is front and center so he is trying to turn everything around you and make it as though him leaving was solely and completely your fault and that if you do not make some significant changes, then it will be over for good.

I’m sorry, but that is immature and extremely manipulative. It takes two to either make or break a relationship. You are both at fault to some extent, but him so much more so than you.

He was not honest with you from the very minute he started thinking of leaving.

Unfortunately, I do not foresee him returning to you as a fully committed romantic partner, at least not long-term. Honestly, if you were to look at the overall situation more objectively, I don’t think you would really want him back for the long haul. He may try to return and play nice for a little while, but I guarantee it will happen again, probably sooner rather than later.

“I don’t even know how to ask it but I’m with a girl because she loves me to death but does things that are almost disrespectful in a way. I have been with this person now 3 years. I guess what I’m asking is am I making the right choice If I stay with this person.” – Jonathan

Hon, I know you believe this girl truly loves you and that is primarily due to the things she tells you rather than how she treats you. She talks a good game, but the truth of her feelings and love lay much more in her actions with you and toward you rather than her words.

Some people are naturally skilled at always knowing just what to say and how to say it. Now, I am not at all saying that she does not actually love you to some degree. Rather I want to convey that she has restrictions on her love, terms, conditions.

Frankly, hon, I really do not think you are making the right decision in choosing to stay with this person. This is only confirmed by the reversed Nine of Cups that came up for you which speaks of dissatisfaction and overall unhappiness. You may get *some* love from her, but at what cost?

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    1. Thank you, very much, Alini, for taking time to read the article and comment. I also very much appreciate the well wishes and hope the same for you.

  1. Hello I just decided to write you back to let you know that I don’t think negative I’m A Positive Pisces Yes me and my Ex Broke up 2 Year ago but I don’t blame myself it was his fault when we got together he didn’t tell me the truth about his past but I found it out by myself Cause I’m Empathy .But Now I’m Pisces Standing Strong

    1. It is wonderful that you are taking a stand, Patricia!

  2. I don’t think the man I am with for 27 years loves me, he told me he is only with me because he has nowhere to go, I was so in love with him and feel betrayed, I don’t know what to do? Is there another man in my future who loves me for who I am? Thank you ! PS will I make it wir my finances?

    1. Marianne, thank you for taking time to post a comment; however, I am not able to address questions or concerns here in the comments section. Please email your question to for consideration.
      Thank you and blessings.

  3. Dear Tami/Tamara x827

    Oh my Thankyou so much for taking the time to respond to my question.
    The card pulled for me Page of cups reversed all over can say is Spot On!
    Thankyou for allowing me to see the light in this relationship. Yes we both at fault and I said that to my estranged partner – no ones perfect.
    Your guidance has been extremely helpful and I Thankyou from the bottom of my heart.
    Sending love and light Be safe ?

    1. Charmaine, you are so very, very welcome, hon! I am glad you were able to relate to the card and that you found it helpful. I tremendously appreciate you taking time to post a comment to let me know!
      Many blessings to you, hon.