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Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.

Walking away from a shared romantic connection is rarely easy and there are almost always hurt feelings, pain and regret. But sometimes, it just needs to be done for the betterment of ourselves. This week, we hear from three women who find themselves needing to let go for their own good. But all is not dark as I had the pleasure of communicating with an extremely happy person who has crossed over.

Norma is not quite ready to let go, Christina is caught up in a relationship with someone who refuses to give up the drink and Joyce is caught up in a hopeless decade-long love triangle. Meanwhile, Natasha needs to know how her mother is doing on the other side.

“Hello Tami, hope this email finds you well. These past 3 months have been like a roller coaster in my love life. My fiancé broke up with me on December 26 and since then I haven’t been myself it’s been really hard on me. Everyday since then I hope we are able to fix our differences and have a new start but, we have not had any type of connection since we last spoke 3 long months ago. So what I’m trying to ask is, are we having a second chance in our love, is he my twin flame? I sure thought he was.” – Norma

Norma, I am terribly sorry that your relationship with Mark did not work out. The card that came up for you was the Eight of Wands and it was reversed. In the reversed position, this card speaks quite literally of resisting change. It truly pains me as I can feel your love for Mark, but it is time to let go and move on. He is not your twin flame or intended lifetime partner. I foresee that person entering your life in September 2021, but things may not get good and going until November. You will meet in a real-world situation rather than online or through an app.

“I have been with my now spouse for 6 years and we got married this past January. We are both laid off and have been at each other’s throats because of his drinking, which has gotten worse since the pandemic started. That being said, he becomes very verbally abusive towards me when he drinks and gets mad. I know that I have a part in things but I don’t think I’m the whole problem, like he’s quick to point out. I am honestly considering taking the kids and leaving him. My question is two fold…am I the problem-do you see him getting to a point where he does something about his drinking or is it best for us to cut our losses and separate?” – Christina

Hon, the first thing you need to know and fully understand is that you are NOT the problem. The problem begins with his drinking.

The card I drew for you today was the reversed Nine of Pentacles which speaks of self-worth. Christina, you are worthy and deserving of so much more. As are your children. No matter how hard you try to shield them and protect them from the ramifications of his drinking, they are still being touched by it in a huge way.

i do not ever like to suggest someone walk away without putting up a good fight. But I see through your energies that you have tried many times to make things right between you, but he simply will not give in any way.

He is currently lost to the alcohol and will remain so for a very long time to come, I’m afraid. He refuses to accept his role in the problems and take ownership of his own words and actions. This will not change.

I am terribly sorry, hon, but I am feeling it is time to let go.

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“Hi. Is my mother ok? She died November 9 2019” – Natasha

Thank you, very much, for including photos of yourself and your mother, hon. I always enjoy being able to put a face to the words.

Natasha, your mother is great! As I am looking at her and talking with her, she is coming across as being one of the happiest spirits i have ever had the pleasure to interact with.

The Magician came up for you and your mother, today. This gentleman speaks of divinely influenced action. That being said/written, the message your mother asks that I pass along to you is that you need to stop thinking about it and just do it. She’s not telling me what “it” is, but she says you know because you think of it often.

She is also indicating some negativity around your conception and/or birth. I am getting the impression that someone of significance to you or your mother did not want her to go through with having you, but your mother wants you to know that she never had any regrets. Not in having you and not in how she lived her life.

She’s doing great, hon. Just great!

“I’ve been dealing with a troubled Aries man who has kept me in a love triangle for 10 yrs.

We broke up and he lured me back after a nasty violent episode. I hesitated to become involved with him – he began seeing another lady he had previously been seeing before our break up.

Now he’s living with her again – telling me he only wants sex from me – while he continues to live with her. But he claims ‘sex’ with me feels like love.

What should I do? Continue to have sex with him – hope he changes his mind – and decides to give me his love & attention finally?” – Joyce

It has been ten years, hon. Ten years! The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. He is not keeping you in this love triangle, hon. You are there by choice, your own conscious thought and effort.

Short of imprisonment, no one can force you to do anything you do not truly want to do. I understand the desperation, loneliness and hope that he will one day come around. But at some point, you have to say that’s it.

He is not going to change. Ever. You need to get out and fast. Like a bandage. Just rip it off and do not look back no matter what he says or promises. His promises are empty, and his words are in vain.

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  1. I been dating my bf for 4 yrs every fight we have he leaves and runs to his exs houses stays there all day g angs out due things and always blames kids all the time when kids are hime and tgere out playing pool he dont work i take care of him and his son for 4 yrs j started charging rent and this starts he dont sleep in same bed he been sleeping in couch for a yr always has excuse not sleep next to me dint want sex and he never takes me no where dont ask nothing he has me blocked on social media and have been seens we got back together i am to the point i am done and I am tired he does nothing g to help around the house he charges me to fix my car is he justed using me please help

  2. Me and my friends reconnect after his wife passed and I was broke up with my friend, but he drinks alot and he goes missing a lot. I’m home 80 percent of the time and finding he doesn’t respect me because I don’t work. But recently I have found messages he write to someone else. I know in my heart we are over but neither one of us will leave the apartment we share

  3. I’m writing to ask you about my daughter Robin and her husband Brandon she married him 2 yrs this coming July I worry about her he is so disrespectful and talks to her any kind of a way she has a daughter who is 17 not for him she begged her mom not to marry him they don’t even have a relationship he doesn’t even talk to her according to my granddaughter my daughter works hard and he is very controlling none of her family members go visit anymore bcuz of him can u tell me if this is permanent will she catch her head her daughter graduates next year and can’t wait to leave help plz

    1. It breaks my heart to see of this situation, Debra, but I am not able to address questions in the comments. You will need to submit your query to me at TamiTime@7thsensepsychics.com so everyone has an opportunity to have their question considered for inclusion in a future posting of Tami Time.
      Thank you and blessings.

  4. I lost two of my loves including ex husband to God and just got out of a two year Relationship. Will I find my soul mate?

  5. Just like to know if my partner is ok, he passed may 7th 2020 ? Does he leave me the black feathers that I come across on my property? When I light my candles they flicker like crazy, is that him also?

  6. Im wondering if me n my ex reunited will b committing. Due to his depression & childhood its been a long road. We have a long distant relationship & im wanting more but hes an aquarian & a tough nut to crack..im wondering wats in store fir july aug..shall i hold on as i do love him unconditionally as he knows i do but i have needs of being in a safe loving relationship & i pray its him. Wats in store for us comin soon?

    1. Tracy, I am not able to answer questions here in the comments. Please narrow your query down to one question and email it to me at TamiTime@7thsensepsychics.com to allow equal consideration for all who are interested.
      Thank you and blessings.

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