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Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.

In Tami Time this week, Michelle expresses concern about ever being happy again while Vicky asks about a love triangle. Sleepy cannot let go of her former husband, Celisha wonders why a rude guy ignores her, and Erica questions her partner’s potential deception while overlooking her own.

“Will I be alright again? Love I don’t know about anymore. I’m not sure if you can see I hurt? I’m trying so hard. Thank you.” – Michelle

In looking at your question, I drew The Magician which speaks of manifestation and taking action; creative action.

You need to take a chance and step outside of your comfort zone and just make something happen. Happiness will not simply come to you, nor will genuine love. That being said, I am seeing that you also need to be more proactive and simply allowing yourself to be fully healed.

Your despair is holding you back. It is so much easier to give in to the negative. The darkness is just more comfortable. But only you can take charge and just work to bring about the desired changes.

“I was involved with a man that said he was involved with a woman. They live together. But he tells me that their relationship is complicated. That she has polio, and that they don’t sleep together. He says that he loves me. And have very deep feelings for me. It’s a long story. But with all the excuses he makes every time we make plans. So I broke it off. What should I do?” – Vicky

Hon, I really feel you did the right thing in ending your shared connection with this particular man. Excuses do not equal love in any culture or society.

The Empress card came up for you, Vicky, which talks of female empowerment and you finally putting your own needs and desires above his. He has been using you. I am sorry this happened to you, but I applaud you for taking back your power!

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“My question I was married to my husband for just short of 25 years short by 2 months, and found out he was cheating on me. I tried to make it work but in the end we divorced, It’s been 14 years since my divorce and I still love him with all my heart. he calls all the time with little crazy things. He is still living with the woman he cheated on me with. How do I ever get him out of my heart. I’m a Libra and he’s an Aquarian My head knows what’s the right thing to do but my heart has it’s own mind” – Sleepy

Hon, quite honestly, the first thing you need to do is stop taking his calls. Politely request that he leave you alone. He made his choice and now must abide by it. Unless you have shared children, you have no reason to continue communications with him. Even with children, you can greatly limit your interactions with him.

By allowing him to continue to reach out to you, you are preventing yourself from fully letting go and just moving on. Without realizing it, you may be allowing yourself to hold out false hope that he will one day return.

For your situation, I drew the Five of Wands. One of the things this card talks about is inner conflict. I see this as you struggling between letting go once and for all to allow yourself to move forward, possibly with someone new, and holding on to the “what if” mentality.

Keep in mind that just because the phone rings, does not mean you have to answer it.

“My question is why is it that rude guy I’m into seems to be ignoring me at this time? Nothing happened. Just out of the blue.” – Celisha

You wrote it yourself, Celisha, he is rude. Plain and simple. Rather than tell you he is not interested; he is choosing to ignore you in hopes you will give up and move on.

With the Ace of Wands, reversed, coming up for you, I see that his interest is elsewhere.

“Yea my relationship is crazy I’ve been with a female Angel for 4 years and it’s been just crazy I feel like she lies to me or she sees someone else can u help me ?? And I’ve been dating Gabriel I fell for him hard…” – Erica

You wrote your entire email in the subject line, Erica, so it was cut off most likely due to character limits. However, it appears your question is intact.

It looks as though you are expressing concern that Angel (last names were removed to protect their privacy) is lying to you or seeing someone else. You then state that you are also dating someone named Gabriel. So, you are doing the very thing you suspect Angel of doing: cheating and most likely lying to cover it up.

I do see some deception around Angel; however, I do not see that she is physically involved with any other person at this time.

After having a considerable bit of difficulty shuffling the cards for you, I finally drew the Hanged Man. He speaks of the need for a new perspective on your part. You are living by a double standard and need to keep in mind that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. This means if it’s ok for you to do it, it is also ok for Angel as well; even Gabriel for that matter.

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