Tami Time: Lovers Rightfully Questioning their Partners

Tami Time: Psychic Tamara answers your questions

Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.

This week on Tami Time, Theresa has chosen a path of sobriety while questioning her long-term partner’s commitment to doing the same while Michelle questions what her own partner says. Eugene wonders about his girlfriend’s growing flirtations with other men and Karen is caught up with a serial cheater.

“I Have been in this relationship with this guy since 2012. He is a Virgo and I am an Aquarius. I have chosen a path of consciousness and sobriety. He says he loves me and that like myself he wants to do things differently and stay sober. I don’t believe him and I don’t want to continue to try just to be living in limbo again a year from now. I’m staying with my parents right now in the process of looking for work and a place to live for me and my 2 animals. My question is am I right in not believing him? Or should I continue to stay open to his pleas?” – Theresa

You are certainly right in not believing him, Theresa. This is confirmed by the The Four of Cups coming up when looking at your situation. He may have good intentions and want to get and stay clean, but he does not want it or you badly enough to just make it happen. I do not see this changing, sadly.

I am very sorry, hon, but it is time to just let go and move on.

“My question for you is “does the man i am with mean what he says or should i trust the energy i feel he puts off?” See i feel hes all words…am i right? Please tell me how you feel…” – Michelle

Hon, the reversed Two of Pentacles tells me that the man you are currently with has very different priorities and desires for the future than you. His energies and actions are speaking far more truth than his words and this will not change, unfortunately. You are right to be skeptical.

“My girlfriend of 3 years is showing more signs of flirtation with other men recently. Now there are trust issues. Has she cheated? Will she? It’s becoming repetitive. I’m worried to go forward with her. Can you advise please?” – Eugene

I am seeing through The Emperor, reversed, that your girlfriend has grown bored in your current shared romantic connection, Eugene. She has not yet cheated physically, but she has thought about it quite a bit.

I do not foresee her being physically active with any other person as long as you and she are officially together, but she may open the door to pursue something with someone else before you actually part ways. That being said/written, it is certainly possible to keep that from happening if you work to recapture the spark you once shared. But you must both want it.

“I’m wondering if the man I am with right now is my future? His words say one thing, but his actions say another. I’m very confused and I know I’m wasting my time. I don’t love him knowing there has been Lots of cheating in the past. Why don’t he just move on with the woman he proved loved to in the past. How can I help him to move on? We have got 20 years into this already.” –Karen

Karen, stop waiting for him to move on and just make a clean break yourself. Seriously ask yourself what is keeping you from taking action. You do not need to wait for him to move on and you certainly do not need his permission to simply cut bait and get away.

The Two of Pentacles, reversed, came up for you as well and it screams that he is not making you and your shared romantic connection priorities. Sadly, he has proven time and again that he cannot be true to you despite what he may say.

People tend to speak far more truth through their actions than their words. Also, it is extremely rare that someone who cheats can change their ways for the long-term. For some people, it is simply a part of who they are and this man is one of those people. He is not your future.

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Tamara (Ext. 827)

Having attained Master Level at Mediumship, Tarot, Energy Work and general Psychic Readings, Tamara (Tami) has a great many years’ experience as a Spiritual Counselor, Psychic, Tarot Reader and Medium also. She is highly skilled at Numerology, Auras, Past Lives and Chakras and can help you determine your own psychic abilities; she is remarkably adept at simple questions as well as those most in-depth. As an award-winning writer with more than 45 years’ experience, Tamara (Tami) has provided original works to 7thsense on various subjects and writes the Daily Tarot Draw.