Tami Time: Troubled Romantic Relationships

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Every week I deal with questions from readers and try to help them resolve their issues by drawing a tarot card and reading what it means for them. If you would like to submit your question to me, email me at TamiTime@7thSensePsychics.com.

This week, we hear from four different women who find themselves in romantic relationships each fears may be in trouble. Angela, Karen, Candace and Melissa are each dealing with their own issues in different shared romantic connections and emailed seeking some clarity.

“We’ve been together 5 years and he moved out three weeks ago said he needs his space. I just want to know if we can work through this or is it coming to an end?” – Angela

I am seeing that you will be able to work through this one particular situation that led him to move out; however, any attempts at a full reconciliation will be unsuccessful. You may get back together for a while, but at this point, you will only be delaying the inevitable. His heart is no longer in the romantic connection with you.

With The Hierophant, reversed, coming up for you, I am being shown that he has come to have different desires and intentions for the future in recent months. Among the meanings of this card are desiring freedom and changing emotions. Unfortunately, your shared romantic connection is no longer strong enough for the long haul. I am terribly sorry to have to tell you that, hon.

“I’ve been dating a guy for 3 years, in the beginning it was only just for fun, 2 years ago he wanted more, now the tides have turned & seems to have reversed. 2020 has absolutely been wild. Just not sure about anything: work, relationships, family! Could really use some guidance before I lose myself” – Karen

Hon, it is being expressed to me that things between you are changing more due to the circumstances around you than him having a change of heart. 2020 has been a very rough year for a great many people all over the world. In times like these, couples do one of two things: they either become stronger together or the stress of life in general builds a huge wedge between them and they eventually part ways.

The card I drew for you was the Knight of Pentacles which strongly indicates that if you truly desire for the romantic connection to grow deep, stronger and eventually advance to the next level, all of that is highly possible and probable with a tremendous deal of effort and hard work on your part. In fact, two of the most basic meanings of this card are hard work and routine.

By restoring as much of an old routine as possible for you and this man, you could ultimately salvage the relationship. He needs to be reminded of why he wanted to be with you two years ago. I realize how difficult it will be but getting back to some sense of normalcy is vitally important for him to come back around and work with you toward a shared future. He still cares very much for you and I am feeling romantic love between you. It is simply that life has gotten in the way. He is feeling that so many things around him are out of his control and the one thing he has complete control over is his relationship with you. That is the main reason he is pulling away.

If you want it badly enough, you can make it work. You just need to be sure this is what you truly want.

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“I have been in a relationship now for 7+ years. Most of the time it goes ok. Lately he has put a lot of distance between us. While we live in the same house, I feel very alone. For many years he has said one day we will get married. Is this true? I just have a real gut feeling something is going on and I am going to find myself out in the cold. Our, love no longer feels like its there. Can you please help me to know if my feelings are true.” – Candace

I am being shown a big breakdown in communication between you and your partner. The reversed King of Cups indicates that he is feeling that you are trying to manipulate him in some way, mainly emotionally. This is leading him to be much more focused on himself and has become quite moody and unpredictable. This can most definitely be turned around and the two of you work together to rebuild your shared romantic connection, but it will require the two of you to work together at all times to fully restore the communication between you. It will take constant and continual effort and a very strong desire on both parts (yours and his) to make this work and to eventually be married to each other.

Due to the recent communication issues, much is being left unsaid and assumed. That is why he feels he is being manipulated and that is why you are doubting your own intuition.

“Has my husband had sexual encounters with the girl he cheated on me with a year ago? And is he still seeing her?” – Melissa

The Empress, reversed, came up for you today telling me that he has spoken with her recently. It appears the communication was digital such as texting or messenger, maybe even email. I am also seeing that they have not seen each other in person in very close to a year since being caught so there has been no sexual contact between them since that time.

Your husband is very much trying to do the right thing. It is being expressed to me that any communication between them was initiated by her, not him. He is not confused about anything such as how he feels for either of you, in fact he never had any genuine emotion or feelings for her. He only spoke with her when she reached out because he is a nice person at his core and did not want to just blow her off or be rude.

Tamara (Ext. 827)

Having attained Master Level at Mediumship, Tarot, Energy Work and general Psychic Readings, Tamara (Tami) has a great many years’ experience as a Spiritual Counselor, Psychic, Tarot Reader and Medium also. She is highly skilled at Numerology, Auras, Past Lives and Chakras and can help you determine your own psychic abilities; she is remarkably adept at simple questions as well as those most in-depth. As an award-winning writer with more than 45 years’ experience, Tamara (Tami) has provided original works to 7thsense on various subjects and writes the Daily Tarot Draw.