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What Constitutes a Relationship?


What Constitutes a Relationship?

As a professional tarot reader most of the questions that I answer are related to love and relationships. As I have stated in many other articles this is a confusing era for relationships and it is difficult to get into a healthy partnership given the current lack of true connection between individuals.

For these reasons I receive many consultations that have to do with attempting to discover a relationship status. However there are moments where the answer is right before our eyes but we have been fed a series of lies that keep us in denial and feed on our hopes, tying us to unhealthy relationships as a result.

As I do in all my relationship-related articles, the aim of this piece is to help you gain clarity and to get rid of toxic patterns that are preventing you for finding a relationship that makes you as happy as you deserve to be.

Actually, in most cases it is very easy to determine whether or not you are in a relationship with someone. The confusion comes in many cases from within instead of from the other person in the situation.

Here are some hints and tips that will help you figure out where you stand in the life of the person you’re interested in.

Defining a relationship

We have been told that there is such a thing as fear when it comes to opening up our hearts. In some cases that can be true, especially when we have undergone severe emotional trauma. However; it is also true that when we are presented with something that is truly irresistible, such fears go away and in most cases we open up to the wonders that a relationship or a true connection with another human being has to offer. For this it is sensible to state that a person, man or woman, who has an interest in another one as a partner will do everything in their power to let them know.

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Just think about how you and most of the people you know behave when they are in a relationship or they are interested in someone who they want to become partners with. The most frequent thing if is being clear about your interest instead of making the other person wonder where they stand.

People in a serious and committed relationship we’re both parts are on the same page don’t need to ask themselves if such a partnership exists, am I right?

By definition a partnership is a union of two or more people who come together for a purpose or endeavor with the aim to share its benefits and its losses. With that definition mind it is very easy to discern where your romance stands in terms of commitment.

For this when you are in a situation in which you don’t share a joint purpose it is safe to assume that it is not a romantic relationship but a romantic interest instead.

Sometimes all that we need in order to get the clarity that we are seeking is to ask ourselves and be honest about the situation. After all the most probable scenario is that if you need to ask yourself if someone is your partner, boyfriend or girlfriend then they are not.

Susan Z’s Verdict

If they are not showing interest, if they are not calling, if they keep the relationship secret, if they are involved with someone else… Then this person it’s not in a relationship with you! As hard as it may be to digest, in most cases accepting this truth is the first step to set you free and start going in the right direction towards a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

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  1. I am in a relationship with a woman and I am a woman also she’s more like a man though the only thing that separates her from being a man is she has woman parts I love her so much I don’t have .oney right now but I am curious to know if she will marry me like she say she is