You two broke up. You have moved on. You may even have started to date again and it\u2019s likely that you are now spending more time with friends and loved ones. Depending on the level of heartbreak and collateral damage, there may be an element of regaling everyone with stories of the ex\u2019s monstrous and insidious behavior.<\/p>\n
But the good news is you survived. You have gained closure and you\u2019re pretty much back to whatever normal means to you. And now?<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve got mail. You Inbox contains a new and rather friendly message from your ex.<\/p>\n
By no means is this a competition, but does this feel like something of a victory? You don\u2019t rush to press delete, and you\u2019re not sure if you actually want to delete the message anyway. Your head says get rid of it, It\u2019s over, but surprisingly your heart finds itself smiling. You feel a new level of maturity as you find yourself thinking of the fun times in the days when you actually liked one another. Besides, what was the nonsense arguing about anyway?<\/p>\n
The bottom line question is, what does your ex want and is it to get back together?<\/p>\n
Story continues below…<\/em><\/p>\n